How has working from home changed our relationships?admin
Anyone who no longer leaves the house every morning in order to get home at 5:30 p.m. at the earliest, but instead goes from the bathroom to the kitchen table in their jogging pants in the morning, knows that many aspects of our lives are changing due to working from home. Of course, this additional time in your own four walls also brings a change in the relationship with your partner – especially if the second person also works in the home office. But does that enrich the relationship or is it a relationship test?
Young and academic
ElitePartner conducted a study with 4,044 people in relationships and asked what changes working from home has brought about. In principle, it quickly becomes clear that the opportunity to work from home is primarily available to young people with an academic degree. Especially in the age group under 39, 60% of those surveyed are or were in the home office. People over 40 had this offer less strongly or took it up less strongly. In addition, academics worked from home twice as often as non-academics.
Those were the hard facts. But how did the couples feel about it? Many couples find that working from home has had a positive impact on their relationship. They report that they have a better work-life balance together, spend more quality time as a couple, have better conversations and experience more tenderness in everyday life and a greater attraction to their partner. 44% also live healthier through the joint home office, eat more balanced or exercise more.
Dispute about working hours and desk
Of course, the many contacts do not only have advantages. Because if couples also share the workplace and get to know everything about each other, this can also lead to new issues and blur the boundaries between work and leisure time. You tend to take problems home with you from work. 41% talk more about work when they work from home together. Classic issues are the question of who gets the office for meetings, why a person sits at the laptop for so long in the evening or when the lunch break should take place together. More than a third of all couples discuss working hours and work organization more. Issues such as housekeeping and order are more often a contentious issue for 38%.
More or less sex?
More time together can boost sex life in some relationships. Around a quarter of those surveyed reported more sex since switching to the home office. However, other couples experience just the opposite. Because of the amount of time they spend together, 23% have suffered in their sex life. It is different with tenderness, hugs and kisses. Around 43% of women and 36% of men report an increase.